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Shannon McKinnion's avatar

I've been looking over the results as they've been released. And with my bare two years of experience. (yes, it's been two years this month now!), what is being reported dovetails with experience nicely.

I think your theory on surgery bottlenecks has some merit to it. Yes, there is (for now) more access to surgical options and more and more insurance companies are paying for it (and some states mandate coverage still). But there is a wait time that can be daunting. I'll use my own experiences so far to illustrate:

From initial request for orchiectomy (August 2024) to consultation (January 2025) was five months. From consultation to proceedure (April 2025) was an additional three months.

There are 3-4 good surgeons in the region doing FFS. The top one doesn't make many forms of insurance. The second top rated one is who I have scheduled. From initial request (August 2024) to consultation (January 2025) was five months. Second consultation was March 2025, so two more months. Insurance approval for *most* of it was in May 2025, and the parts that have been denied are being appealed. Date of surgery is scheduled for November 2025. So 15 months for he best surgeon in the region that takes my insurance.

As for GRS? I decided that yes, I want to go that route in December 2024. Did my homework, and decided on the type I want (PPV). Insurance will only approve in the region, and there is *ONE* place doing that in a 400 mile range. Got the referral in March 2025, did the paperwork, and I have a consultation for my initial appointment.....for October 2026. 19 months later, and up to 3 years wait time. Even if I "settled" for my second or third choice options, I'm still looking at 2-4 years wait time.

Add to that there is now a push to get as much done NOW while you still can and yeah....bottlenecks and wait times are insane.

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Justin Kolodziej (maybe Ann)'s avatar

Hi Zoe!

I'm newly working on exploring a transfemme demigirl identity (so another in the AMAB nonbinary bucket, unless I change my mind some more) and it's actually kind of fun! Though I'm not regularly out and about as Ann yet...it should be fine where I live though, very blue. I do have kids who live in a very red area though!

It's just too soon for me to have much to add regarding the survey, but I was able to get a gender therapist right away to help me navigate things. The gender clinic, well it's only been like a week and a half from getting the referral from my primary that I needed (I tried calling like the website said and they were like "nah, we need a referral" which primary care gave them without a real hassle. But I have some issues where I could use more expert advice vs. a standard informed consent place. (or maybe message my current endocrinologist and see if he'll support HRT instead? Might be a back door?)

p.s. I posted on another article as my alt "Tina Kay"/"Tina Ann" but decided Tina still wasn't quite right and keeping 2 separate sets of everything was just too much! Won't delete the other account and its subscriptions though but will continue writing weeklies on this one.

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