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alexis's avatar

This dovetails with something I say in response to trans brain discourse a lot, as someone who fell into it when I was first learning about trans people's existence and validity (before my egg cracked): why would we expect or want such a dimorphic difference in the first place? There's no way something as course as a brain scan could possibly find something as complex and multifaceted as an identity, even a neurologically predisposed identity, in the structure of your brain, just like we wouldn't expect brain scans to be able to tell whether you're a punk or a goth or a metalhead. That just isn't how it works. So if we're committed to saying that gender is a socially, culturally, and individually constructed and psychologically seated identity, which seems to be the most robust account of it for describing the world (and promoting good things) then why would we expect brain scans to find it? Plus, even if there was some average difference scans could find, there would always, always be exceptions — cis women with more masculine brains and cis men with more feminine than we expect — because that's just how biology and statistics is, and so we'd never want to rest our case on it lest that turn into a new gatekeeping mechanism.

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I'm a 67 year old trans woman. Since I was 4 or 5 I knew that I wished I was a girl but I also knew that it would always be my deepest secret. Why? Because way back then there it was have been intolerable by my family, friends, and society to come out. Basically, I was scared to death. Fast forward: I started my transition at 61 and am quite happily living my life as the woman I am.

What's my point? Trans people who were born, say, over 40-50 years ago want there to be something, anything, that biologically proves that what we feel is real. Science may never fully unwind characteristics of handedness, sexuality, gender... In the meantime — as we witnessed with the general acceptance and love of gay people, the need to identify such biological differences by and large goes away.

Thankfully, society is slowly coming to awareness that we are what we are whether understood or not, we're not out to hurt anyone, and in the end we're just part of normal human diversity.

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